About us

Sandton Jacks (Gauteng Jacks) is Fetishhavensa’s cheeky local spin on the global JACKS brand — a space built for men who know exactly what they’re here for and prefer the direct route.

 

Fetishhavensa itself is a licensed hotel-and-club hybrid, born in 2016 when Miss Vee (Mistress Cleo) took a renovated warehouse and turned it into two floors of club energy and fantasy rooms. Sandton Jacks is the monthly night that opens the doors specifically to the gay and man-to-man scene, while still keeping the house spirit of choice and consent front and centre.

What happens at Sandton Jacks

When you arrive

From the moment you arrive

 

Secure indoor parking is waiting.

 

Walk in, and the first rule is refreshingly simple:

pants (or any bottoms) stay at the door. Leather, jocks, harnesses — all welcome.

 

Lockers are right there so you can stash the real world and step into the room already dressed for the evening.

 

An ambassador will meet you, point out the house rules (they’re also clearly posted), and answer anything you’re unsure about.

 

Hygiene is non-negotiable; respect and consent are the only hard currencies accepted.

 

Once you’re sorted, you get a coloured wristband that does the talking for you:

 

Jerk off

Kiss

Touch others

Be touched

Group play

Same-room energy

Same-room energy is the default. Everyone is in one shared space, doing what their band says they’re up for. Prefer something a little more private than a handshake? There’s a designated area for that too — no pressure, no judgement, just the option.

Inside the venue

While you’re inside

 

There’s a licensed cash bar if you need a touch of Dutch courage. Use it sparingly.

 

This isn’t a chat-and-sip night. The house gently (and sometimes not-so-gently) encourages you to put the conversation down and actually play.

 

Too much talking, lingering at the bar, or treating the place like a social club is the one thing we actively discourage.

Home time

When it’s time to go

 

Collect your clothes, reclaim your real-world self, and step back out knowing the night stayed where it belonged — inside these walls.

Consent and Discreet

What we do encourage is simple: escape, indulge, and leave the outside world at the door.

 

Discretion is built in.

 

Consent is continuous.

 

Hygiene is expected.

 

Everything else is up to you and the people whose bands match yours.

How to join

Sandton Jacks happens on the last Sunday of every month.

 

Book your spot through the Fetishhavensa website or simply let us know you’re coming. Spots fill, the room has limits, and the vibe works best when everyone who shows up is intentional about being there.

 

That’s it. Pants off, band on, respect high, expectations clear.